Being sober and being an active member of a Self-Help Group Program means that you can share honestly with your partner in a way that many other couples may never experience. Sober dating allows you to experience time together with a clear mind and attention to the present moment. Connecting without alcohol or drugs to grease the wheels creates powerful and authentic relationships. That's why, with the help of some sober friends, I've gathered suggestions for dating while sober or dating someone who is.
If you've become sober but your partner isn't ready to quit smoking, setting healthy boundaries and communicating clearly are key to successfully staying sober. That feeling can be a drug in itself, one that is not found in sober life (and especially not in sober relationships). As most people in recovery will say, being sober involves living in a world that isn't, and a dating scene that is intrinsically linked to drinking alcohol to make things happen.
